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Re: unsure if it's the end or the beginning of the end...
posted at 3/7/2009 2:24 PM BST
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Total posts: 150
First post: 20/11/2008 Last post: 20/11/2009 |
I don't even know you but I was thinking of you last night and I feel so bad for you. Breaking up with my ex I felt constantly sick and it's made me ill, and that's without being ignored so god knows how you feel.
:) x
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Re: unsure if it's the end or the beginning of the end...
posted at 3/7/2009 2:40 PM BST
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Total posts: 298
First post: 20/4/2008 Last post: 18/11/2009 |
I've been trying to be strong but in the last hour or so it's hit me and I know I'm about to be a complete mess :( I don't know if I should delete him from facebook, msn etc now or if I should write an email-I really have no idea :( I'm just feeling so upset and let down. I feel ok for a moment and then remember he ignored me and put the pictures up and wasn't there for me-it feels like he was a completely different person. I just feel like complete sh*t. This is exactly how I felt last year to do with another guy so the fact that it's happened all again with someone I loved so much is destroying me. I wish I could just roll up in a ball and get rid of these feelings :(:'( |
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Re: unsure if it's the end or the beginning of the end...
posted at 3/7/2009 3:03 PM BST
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Total posts: 32
First post: 30/12/2008 Last post: 18/11/2009 |
Aw hun, I feel so bad for you, I know I don't know you but I really wish there was something I could do! Have a *hug* lol. I guess it's up to you to decide whether you should delete him from msn/FB etc ... it depends on how you think it is best for you to deal with it. I know if I was in love with someone and they treated me like that a complete break would be easier but on the other hand I'm a nosy cow and would want to know what was going on with him. Not helpful I'm sorry but if you dont want to email him then if you delete him etc he'll know that obviously something is up. Personally I wouldnt want to stoop to his level and if it's definitely over I think you should tell him, just write him a very brief message just saying that it's over because of the way he's treated you and that you do not want/expect a reply because there is no excuse that could change your mind. I hope you're ok, as someone said already, rant her as long as you want. xx |
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Re: unsure if it's the end or the beginning of the end...
posted at 3/7/2009 3:18 PM BST
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Total posts: 150
First post: 20/11/2008 Last post: 20/11/2009 |
Pink I know it's hard. I'd advise deleting him from facebook. My ex recently added me and I do nothing but look to see what his up to. Even a normal message from a girl makes me really upset, and if he's posting pics up these will upset you so maybe it's best that you just delete him so you can't upset yourself even more.
:) x
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Re: unsure if it's the end or the beginning of the end...
posted at 3/7/2009 3:27 PM BST
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Total posts: 32
First post: 30/12/2008 Last post: 18/11/2009 |
In Response to Re: unsure if it's the end or the beginning of the end...: I've changed my status to single..that was hard enough :( haven't done anything else yet though Posted by thepinkshoe Well that's a clear sign to him. If he's online and sees that and doesnt IMMEDIATELY bombard you with emails and apologies then that's just underlining what we've all been saying. This must be really tough for you so that's probably enough for now. |
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Re: unsure if it's the end or the beginning of the end...
posted at 3/7/2009 3:36 PM BST
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Total posts: 298
First post: 20/4/2008 Last post: 18/11/2009 |
I'm writing an email now but I'm not going to send it-least not now. I'm just so angry at how worthless and unimportant he has made me feel. The countless times I have suggested things and let him go cos he has a bad memory. He just doesn't give a sh*t anymore-well that's at least how it is coming across. I can't believe I'm doing this :( but I told myself I wouldn't let this keep happening to me. I hate that I'm still in love with the guy he was, the guy I wanted to be with more than anyone else :(
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Re: unsure if it's the end or the beginning of the end...
posted at 3/7/2009 3:40 PM BST
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Total posts: 30799
First post: 18/3/2003 Last post: 16/11/2009 |
I'm so horribly sorry. I know exactly how this feels, as I said. It doesn't reflect on his feelings for you before he went away or mean that what he did feel for you wasn't true - I suspect just travelling and being 'free' has gone to his head. But he's shown a very different side to him and it's not one which is sustainable in a relationship. |
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Re: unsure if it's the end or the beginning of the end...
posted at 3/7/2009 3:54 PM BST
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Total posts: 6855
First post: 4/2/2004 Last post: 20/11/2009 |
Ah, you poor thing. Yo really deserve a hug and lots of reassuring support and love right now. I know you don't yet feel strong enough, but I'll tell you this for nothing, it's amazing how taking back some control can make you feel a little better. He deserves to be deleted and ignored right back. Bastard. I don't say that very often, but I really mean it in this instance. It's utterly rotten and downright bastardness what he's done. |
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Re: unsure if it's the end or the beginning of the end...
posted at 3/7/2009 4:02 PM BST
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Total posts: 298
First post: 20/4/2008 Last post: 18/11/2009 |
I deleted him from facebook. I just want to die right now :( It's like I'm starting my whole life again with the amount of changes that have been happening for me. I f*cking hate this :(
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