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uni crush
posted at 7/11/2009 3:50 PM GMT
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Total posts: 121
First post: 8/12/2006 Last post: 8/11/2009 |
hi i am crushing on a guy in my course. i've known of him for 3 years but never had the opportunity to be in a social context where i can actually speak to him. now i can, cause we are in the same class but he hangs out with other girls. when i talk to him sometimes i get smirks (where i smirk back), seriousness or just smiles whenever we meet and speak to eachother. i can imagine that we are totally different in character - him being the party goer vs. the sweet type (me) and if i had to sense things, since we dont really hang in the same group, that i think that he is more likely to reject then accept if i were to tell him how i feel. also, we are so different and barely know each other. i get nervous around him but im improving... but for some unknown reason, i really like him. any thoughts on what i should/should not do? 
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Re: uni crush
posted at 7/11/2009 10:57 PM GMT
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Total posts: 226
First post: 19/1/2009 Last post: 7/11/2009 |
Not much useful advice to offer I'm afraid but I'd be wary of the fact that you're in the same class so if you make a move and he's not interested it could be quite awkward. But, just because you think you're different in character / have different interests doesn't mean that nothing could ever happen between you. As you said you barely know him, with that in mind personally I would hold back on making any kind of romantic gestures / advances, suss the situation out further and just try and engage in a bit more everyday conversation with him and see how things go.  |
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Re: uni crush
posted at 8/11/2009 3:48 PM GMT
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Total posts: 121
First post: 8/12/2006 Last post: 8/11/2009 |
In Response to Re: uni crush: Not much useful advice to offer I'm afraid but I'd be wary of the fact that you're in the same class so if you make a move and he's not interested it could be quite awkward. Yes, in fact, that is partly what I am concerned about. I mean I would not like to be seen as just being there for my crush, but to work hard. Thanks so much for your input. |
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Re: uni crush
posted at 8/11/2009 9:05 PM GMT
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Total posts: 267
First post: 10/11/2008 Last post: 9/11/2009 |
I was in a similar situation earlier this year and I resorted to the childish option of getting a friend to talk to him and see if he liked me! Probably the best option is to try to chat to him casually if possible. You already have the topic of uni work to talk about. That way you can suss out how much you like him and, hopefully, if he's interested in you! |
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Re: uni crush
posted at 8/11/2009 10:07 PM GMT
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Total posts: 626
First post: 23/6/2007 Last post: 9/11/2009 |
IF you are in the third year, i am guessing it is the last year, go for it. If it fails, so what. They will be talking about someone else next week. But if it has been 3 years, I would like to think a guy would have asked you out by now, if he was interested. But saying that if I thought the person was so different and not interested, I would not bother. But you do seem to think he is interested. GO FOR IT
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