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Re: So that's that then :(
posted at 16/7/2009 2:56 PM BST
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Total posts: 6856
First post: 4/2/2004 Last post: 26/11/2009 |
he sounds like a bastard. My god, what a total and utter bastard! Is he always that spoilt, aggressive and abusive? And your friend? She needs her head read. They're not very quality friends are they? And at a time when you actually need some peace and some support, they've managed to turn the experience into a nightmare. I'm so sorry for you. You don't need this at all. |
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Re: So that's that then :(
posted at 16/7/2009 3:10 PM BST
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Total posts: 150
First post: 20/11/2008 Last post: 20/11/2009 |
I can't believe this has happened to you! Especially with what you're going through at the moment. What a complete and utter t*sser!! And your friend isn't much of a friend for siding with him rather than you. Lily is right, cut them both out of your life, they will only make you feel much worse than you already do. I'm so sorry this holiday has been such a nightmare for you, it should have been a nice break and I'm so angry at them for ruining it for you x
:) x
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Re: So that's that then :(
posted at 16/7/2009 4:51 PM BST
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Total posts: 1372
First post: 12/8/2007 Last post: 26/11/2009 |
First of all honey...have a hug...  I am so very sorry that what should have been a relaxing break for you has been so awful, but i hope you are home safely. I don't have anything to add to what has already been said but agree with it all - what kind of idiot uses words like "scum" to a young girl??! Unbelivable!! Please update when you get home xxx "and that's all i have to say about that..." |
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Re: So that's that then :(
posted at 17/7/2009 6:01 PM BST
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Total posts: 1192
First post: 30/8/2006 Last post: 26/11/2009 |
Well thats me back home now. Although I feel better about being away from there I dont feel better about being back :( Think Ex is now seeing someone else...girl that I thought he would end up seeing :( . Feel ill again now with everythin that is going on :( I just feel like Im sinking again, and it's horrible. I have never felt so alone, I wish I could sort my life out and get over things quicker but whenever I think about him and her...well it makes me feel so sick. I just want to cry, and curl up under my bed. I just dont know how to surviive a break up and losing my friend at the same time :( x
Sheesh :) |
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Re: So that's that then :(
posted at 23/7/2009 6:13 PM BST
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Total posts: 1372
First post: 12/8/2007 Last post: 26/11/2009 |
Apologies for bumping this up, but how are you CR? I have been away and then poorly so not logged in for a while...wondered how you were? x
"and that's all i have to say about that..." |
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Re: So that's that then :(
posted at 29/7/2009 7:19 PM BST
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Total posts: 1192
First post: 30/8/2006 Last post: 26/11/2009 |
Hi. Um Im not doing so well. Seen my ex and the girl (that I was worried about) together in the supermarket. Utterly devestated. Confirmed he had been seeing her for two weeks, and well I just feel like someone has punched me in the stomach. He said it was nothing to do with me...and I know that but it hasnt even been two months and he's over me already. I can't even bear to be in my own house because he's stayed here. Im frightened to go out in case i see them together in the street, I had a panic attack when I seen them in the super market. He looked at me as if he had only been seeing me for two weeks. I just don't know what to do anymore. I've lost half a stone in weight and I can't eat, when I try I feel so sick. I'm so angry with everyone but him and I cant help it, I just want my life back. I honestly feel like I could move away and never come back. Sheesh :) |
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Re: So that's that then :(
posted at 29/7/2009 9:53 PM BST
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Total posts: 1372
First post: 12/8/2007 Last post: 26/11/2009 |
Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry that you are feeling like this....the only advice i can give you that THIS WILL PASS, I promise you. You need time to heal, and grieve the relationahip you thought you had and you are doing the right thing by getting out with friends, you must try to keep yourself as distracted from thinking about him as you can. Do you read? Have a favorite TV series? Maybe take a study/evening course in something? Hit the gym, perhaps, get some endorphins rushing round. This would make you feel better. I can't remember how long you were together, but seem to think it was a couple of years? In that case, two months is no time at all to get over this, and you really need to be kind to yourself, knowing that you will get through this, as impossible and painful as it seems right now. He seems to have been clear in that he has "moved on" and accepting that will not be easy, but you will, in time do just that. Try and understand that this will be a very difficult time for you, and you need to go through this sh!t to come out the other side - which you WILL. xx "and that's all i have to say about that..." |
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Re: So that's that then :(
posted at 30/7/2009 11:12 PM BST
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Total posts: 30799
First post: 18/3/2003 Last post: 16/11/2009 |
CR I'm really worried about you. You've had some really severe knocks and been horribly hurt. Are you able to talk to someone about how you're feeling who won't just dismiss you with "move on"? Perhaps it would be worth having a talk with your doctor about how to deal with panic attacks? Yes, all over the world people's relationships end - but it doesn't make your own break up any the less painful. You've also had a double whammy with your friend behaving so atrociously (she's obviously totally under the thumb of her pathetic boyfriend and is probably very unhappy, not that that's an excuse) - so you're in grieving for both your relationship and your friendship. There are no easy remedies to suggest, no ways to recover from this beyond you simply have to feel it in order to start to heal. I'm sorry you have to go through this. If I could bundle up your pain and carry it for you for a while I would; but only you can handle it right now. It won't always hurt this way, I can promise you that. Please keep going. I know eating isn't top priority but it is so important you do or you'll feel even worse, believe it or not. |
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