Hi there. Sorry havent managed to get to the computer. Ladyv it was in fact with my "best friend" and her boyfriend. I had a fight with him over something which was stupid, but then because he cant let anything go, he began to make bad remarks in my general direction. Although the comments werent exclusively directed at me, I know they were aimed at me because of the content. He called me a couple of names also, again through the comments. She didnt stick up for me and I was hurt by this because I never actually said anything to him even though he was saying this to me, for the sake of the other couple. Now two days later the tension is terrible, he has banged into my chair, kicked the bathroom door whilst I was in, flicked an elastic band at my leg whilst I was walking and also kicked stones whilst he was walking at me. When I asked why she didnt stick up for me she told me that he was her boyfriend, and I would of let my ex speak to her like that...which I certainly wouldnt have.

The full day after it happened I stayed out their way because I thought well I dont want to cause any more tension especially between them and the other couple. At night time I received a text message from him where he called me spoiled and scum, said if I touched his things then he would see about it...

The next day well I was bitched about by my best friend, where she said I threw her comfort about my ex in her face. Also she claimed she had tried to make peace, but she had shouted at me. The other couple said that they needed it sorted because of how things were. Her boyfriend then said he had never liked me anyway, which was news to me.

So well now I have booked myself a flight home because I was very upset yesterday when he tried to trip me up, which he claimed was an accident. For being older than me he acts like a five year old.

I have now lost my boyfriend and my best friend, so the holiday didnt do anything to cheer me up unfortunately.

Lily I really wish I was being hypersensitive, but the other couple also said  that they would of booked flights home too with me because their treatment towards me was terrible :(

Thanks for your kind advice.

That's terrible.  Your best friend is no 'friend' - and what on earth is she doing going out with such a Neanderthal?  He sounds as if he's only a whisker away from violent behaviour, the way he has treated you.

I'm sorry this holiday has been so rotten and I'm sorry your best friend has turned out to be a cowbag but you really are better off out of it.