So that's that then :(
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Re: So that's that then :(
posted at 2/7/2009 7:28 PM BST
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Total posts: 1372
First post: 12/8/2007 Last post: 26/11/2009 |
In Response to Re: So that's that then :(: Aaah, easy for me to say "just go" I know but I do think a change of scene, some sunshine and being away from HWSNBN (hee hee) will be better for you than being at home.. Anyways, FWIW I agree with all your pros and as to the cons: Yes you will miss him badly but probably not much more than you do already. Yes, seeing others loved up will underline your newly single status for you, but that status isn't gonna change whether you are here or there, or with other singles or couples. Sleeping alone every night - you'd be doing that here! If you hate it then you can't come home...sure you couldn't get a cheapy flight back in absolute extremis? Being away from your support system of family and friends will be tough when you need someone to talk to - could you take a laptop to keep in touch? And texts are now cheaper whilst roaming I think? Cash wise, yes you will spend on your hol but you may look back and think it was worth it... Good luck whatever you decide CR, but as a final thought, I would say that you seem to be doing really really well accepting the the rellie is over so give yourself a big pat on the back/glass of wine/bar of chocolate for that...well done love x "and that's all i have to say about that..." |
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Re: So that's that then :(
posted at 3/7/2009 10:59 AM BST
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Total posts: 10614
First post: 19/11/2006 Last post: 18/11/2009 |
Go on your hol chick, sun on your skin and people who are your friends who love and support you will do you the world of good, it will take you out of the mundane every day crap here, what will you do with the time off if you don't go...... cry and be sad here wishing you were anywhere but home!!! You will be upset and heartbroken whilst away there's no getting away from that BUT it will give you a break. Just look a Adora's thread after the terrible events in her life last year (sorry A to talk about you chick just think it may help). She went away and was terribly sad and heartbroken understandably BUT from what I remember she also laughed and relaxed. It is such a horrible time for you chick but you deserve your holiday and I do honestly think it may help even if it's just slightly :hug: xx |
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Re: So that's that then :(
posted at 3/7/2009 11:52 AM BST
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Total posts: 30799
First post: 18/3/2003 Last post: 16/11/2009 |
I reckon you should go, too. You would be missing him and sleeping alone back in the UK, and it sounds like the holiday friends are kind and supportive. About 70% of my friends are in couples but it doesn't hurt spending time with them because they're my mates, if you know what I mean. See them as individuals rather than couples and that knocks some of your cons out of the water.
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Re: So that's that then :(
posted at 3/7/2009 6:19 PM BST
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Total posts: 1192
First post: 30/8/2006 Last post: 26/11/2009 |
I know. I got my currency etc today but I'm still not 100% sure. We went the past two years on holiday with each other and I was expecting this to be the same. In the last two years he took care of everything from currency to passports and I just feel so scared of doing things alone. I dont want to be without him :( I havent go past that part and i'm worried it is going to continue there. Everything is so bad and I feel so pathetic, I dont cry often and right now all I do is cry and I dont want to put that on my friends either. Also I had an argument with one of my friends boyfriends because he believes its my fault that my ex isn't going. Just worried that Im going to go here a mess and the only holiday will be ruined. x
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Re: So that's that then :(
posted at 5/7/2009 12:55 PM BST
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Total posts: 1192
First post: 30/8/2006 Last post: 26/11/2009 |
In Response to Re: So that's that then :(: What did you decide CR? How are you today? Here's a hug in case you need one xx Posted by satsumakitten Well today is the day. I have decided to go after all. Feel nervous and a bit ill just now. Really scared that it will be a total and utter disaster! But Ive decided Ill have fun even if it kills me :( Thank you for all your support and kind words it made me feel better x Sheesh :) |
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Re: So that's that then :(
posted at 5/7/2009 9:00 PM BST
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Total posts: 1372
First post: 12/8/2007 Last post: 26/11/2009 |
In Response to Re: So that's that then :(: In Response to Re: So that's that then :( : Well today is the day. I have decided to go after all. Feel nervous and a bit ill just now. Really scared that it will be a total and utter disaster! But Ive decided Ill have fun even if it kills me :( Thank you for all your support and kind words it made me feel better x Posted by Chasin_Rainbows Glad to hear you have decided to go CR, good on you! Hope you manage to relax, sort through your thoughts and hopefully have some fun too honey. Let us know how the holiday went, won't you? xx "and that's all i have to say about that..." |
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Re: So that's that then :(
posted at 6/7/2009 12:24 PM BST
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Total posts: 103
First post: 14/12/2008 Last post: 24/11/2009 |
Don't go away with him. It would be awful for you. Just tell him that he owes it to you to stay away, go and take a single friend with you instead. That way you two cuold go off and do your own thing if the couply stuff gets too much. Sunshine is so healing, so if you can get away without him, do it. I went through something similar recently, although not as long term as you, I'm really sorry for how you must be feeling. Why do men do this, how can they just switch their emotions like that with no signs!! Be strong hunny xx
Lilly xxx
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Re: So that's that then :(
posted at 10/7/2009 3:00 PM BST
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Total posts: 1192
First post: 30/8/2006 Last post: 26/11/2009 |
Well its almost been a week since Ive got here. Most of it has been good but yesterday had a really bad day :( Just feeling really lonely right now but I guess that is expected. Weather is lovely, but holiday isnt what I had expected! Although its not great here now I dont want to go home either because Im frightened what I´ll go back too :( The sun is cheering me up a little tho :P x
Sheesh :) |
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