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when did boys get so confusing?
posted at 6/11/2009 8:31 PM GMT
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Total posts: 5
First post: 7/10/2009 Last post: 18/11/2009 |
just want abit of advice really.... i met a lovely boy the other weekend we got on well, had loads in common and had a cheeky kiss! he told me he was busy for the next couple of weeks but added me on facebook and took my number, we texted loads that night and following day but he seems less keen now. We haven't arranged to do anything, yet. But i really want to see him again but don't want to seem desperate by pursuing him! My friends that met him that night think he just seems abit shy and is lovely, but comments on his facebook make him seem like a player. My friends think i should "chase" him but i'm not sure, he seems lovely when we speak but i am wary after seeing his facebook! stupid i know! |
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Re: when did boys get so confusing?
posted at 6/11/2009 10:59 PM GMT
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Total posts: 120
First post: 8/9/2009 Last post: 19/11/2009 |
As your friends say he could just be shy - but, if your initial instinct from his comments is that he seems like a player keep that in mind when you meet up with him. I often find that that initial gut instinct is right. |
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Re: when did boys get so confusing?
posted at 7/11/2009 1:52 PM GMT
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Total posts: 1348
First post: 12/8/2007 Last post: 19/11/2009 |
go with your gut - I really don't want to sound mean honey cos it sounds like you are a little bit smitten, but if he wanted to see you he would have asked you by now. If you want to know how things stand though then i see nothing wrong in a text saying "so, I'm free next week, want to meet up?". I don't think that is "desperate" or "chasing", it's just a straightforward question that will make him give you a "yes" or "no" answer! His reply will give you your answer - either good or bad. Hope it goes well though. "and that's all i have to say about that..." |
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Re: when did boys get so confusing?
posted at 7/11/2009 6:57 PM GMT
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Total posts: 111
First post: 8/4/2009 Last post: 11/11/2009 |
I'm in a similiar situation! We're only Facebooking each other and the stuff he has said (like "next time we see each other..") made me think he likes me but he takes literally days to reply to messages, even when I can see he's been online, if he liked me he'd at least take the 2 minutes to reply. So I'm guessing he's not interested..oh well nothing gained nothing lost! What makes you think from his Facebook he's a player? |
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Re: when did boys get so confusing?
posted at 12/11/2009 11:13 PM GMT
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Total posts: 2
First post: 12/11/2009 Last post: 12/11/2009 |
Shuggs, I'm male. If I like a lass, I ring her, arrange to go out with her, and try to get to know her. The computer is a reallllllllllyyyyyyyy, really, really, crap medium to get to know someone. They say that 60 % of communication is non verbal... Don't bother with using the computer. If he hasn't called you he could be married, or attached, not interested, or keeping you on a 'low heat' until he requires some 'action'. My advice is CALL HIM, if he flaffs, makes excuses, calls you 'honey' but can't see you as (for instance) 'the polar ice caps are melting at the wrong rate'... i.e. he won't agree to a time, then yes he is a player and if you are not in for the ride, then drop him and find someone who shows and maintains interest in you. Good luck Hun  M
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Re: when did boys get so confusing?
posted at 16/11/2009 12:15 AM GMT
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Total posts: 5
First post: 7/10/2009 Last post: 18/11/2009 |
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Re: when did boys get so confusing?
posted at 16/11/2009 10:37 AM GMT
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Total posts: 10
First post: 13/11/2009 Last post: 16/11/2009 |
i think facebook is the best medium to judge someone on, often you can tell alot by whats written on their facebook, and also not to judge him but if someone likes you they should arrange to meet up relatively soon, and as above trust your instincts, if something doesnt seem right its probably not! also drinking ona date can be both a good and bad thing! |
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