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Being good when you feel crap
posted at 8/7/2009 8:13 PM BST
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Total posts: 21918
First post: 8/2/2005 Last post: 16/11/2009 |
I have had a shit day. Found a mouse late last night, slept very badly on the sofa. Couldnt cycle as burst a tyre on bike, I'm not good tired. Was having a stressful work day, getting in a panic. Had a powercut in my area so couldnt get on with work. Had headache. Work Guy was around at end of the day, and we were only doing work related things, and just chatting but it felt it was getting close to the line again. He had a shit day yesterday (related to his baby he lost a hiwle back), so we were chatting on sofas at work. He was hinting to go out for a drink, I knew it. Others were going, so it wouldnt just be the two of us, but I knew it just wasnt smart. I can tell by the way he looks at me, and gives me little gifts most days (chewing gum, fruit etc). So I said no, and was firm, but I really wanted to feel better, so I guess I';m trying to feel pride in myself for doing the right thing when I wanted to do the wrong thing. You know when a big male hug could make the world seem less scary......... |
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Re: Being good when you feel crap
posted at 8/7/2009 8:22 PM BST
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Total posts: 1059
First post: 20/5/2008 Last post: 2/8/2009 |
aww hun, dont sound good, if it helps i think theres something in the air and theres alot of bad luck around at the moment, ive had the unluckiest week. Well done for standing to a firm no hun, you should feel good for saying no, you did the right thing. x |
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Re: Being good when you feel crap
posted at 8/7/2009 8:29 PM BST
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Total posts: 6639
First post: 9/11/2003 Last post: 25/9/2009 |
Well done, Chocjo, it would've been so much easier to give in and go for a drink with him given the day you've had but you were a strong independent woman- go you, you Beyonce style lady  Hope tomorrow is a much better day for you.P x |
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Re: Being good when you feel crap
posted at 8/7/2009 8:33 PM BST
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Total posts: 2888
First post: 30/8/2008 Last post: 15/11/2009 |
You and I, shall be friends until we are old and senile. |
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Re: Being good when you feel crap
posted at 8/7/2009 11:50 PM BST
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Total posts: 21918
First post: 8/2/2005 Last post: 16/11/2009 |
I did have a raw food bar based on cocoa....was ok. I have been manically tidying to try and sort mice out, which has helped - in the way exercise does but also just feel in control again. Feeling much more my normal self. There are currently no mice in my room, I will stuff wool under crack in door, and should be able to sleep more normally. Still imagining them everywhere, but better than sofa downstairs. |
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Re: Being good when you feel crap
posted at 9/7/2009 12:56 AM BST
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Total posts: 2601
First post: 5/10/2005 Last post: 24/9/2009 |
You don't always need to be good. Everything in moderation and as long as you're not having a shitty day every day then going home and deep throating a fullsize Toblerone before burying your face in a Dominos, I think you're alright... |
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Re: Being good when you feel crap
posted at 9/7/2009 10:31 AM BST
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Total posts: 30799
First post: 18/3/2003 Last post: 16/11/2009 |
Jo you are being so strong - well done! But I'd say give in to that desire for food wot is bad for you if you really need it. One day won't make much difference and if you've been really 'good' in some areas it's not so bad for you to be naughty in others. I hope you feel better today. x
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