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Re: How to avoid a potentially embarrassing situation

posted at 9/7/2009 1:45 PM BST

Miss Megs

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I agree with Dazz. No way would I stay at the parents house of some bloke I was getting rude with!

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Re: How to avoid a potentially embarrassing situation

posted at 9/7/2009 1:53 PM BST

Lily

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H'indeed, but I didn't tell him it was my parents' house. I said "with us" and there are tons of other people staying there anyway so it wouldn't be just him and me.

Anyway I don't want to be anyone's fling, and I realise if I see him again In That Light that is how I will be, so it's probably just as well. We were in contact a lot, but going off abroad without telling me says it all I think. Which is why actually I don't want someone I've had sex with at my party, acting all natural and chatting up other women!

WW, I am very much guilty of the same thing as you, but in fact in the long run perhaps it isn't a bad thing. :meh: (I would have been very happy if he said he wanted to stay here, but I would not be having sex with him again.)

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Re: How to avoid a potentially embarrassing situation

posted at 9/7/2009 1:57 PM BST

Miss Megs

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Hmm I think the not staying is one thing, but the going away is another. I wouldn't be happy with that.

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Re: How to avoid a potentially embarrassing situation

posted at 9/7/2009 1:57 PM BST

SillySpice

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Hi there. I hope you don't me adding my two pence worth but why would he be coming to your party if he wasn't interested in you still? If I had slept with someone a few times, and I was no longer interested I wouldn't be doing that?

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Re: How to avoid a potentially embarrassing situation

posted at 9/7/2009 2:06 PM BST

Lily

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Well, quite, Megs!

I don't know why he'd still be coming down - probably out of obligation, maybe? As I said, he is quite good in social situations when he doesn't feel That Way about someone anyway. Still, I've decided to delete his number, so I can't contact him anyway and I'll get the "I'm really sorry, but I've had a change of plan" text in due course, I'm sure. You could write the bloody script, really.

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Re: How to avoid a potentially embarrassing situation

posted at 9/7/2009 2:17 PM BST

wau wau sister

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Yeah, it is rather strange to go away without mentioning it. Besides, it's your birthday, your party and totally up to you how you behave. I hope it's a great one Lils, and happy birthday for next week fello crab x x

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Re: How to avoid a potentially embarrassing situation

posted at 9/7/2009 2:36 PM BST

Lily

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Well, I've just had a message from a dear friend who originally wasn't able to come, saying that she'd decided family and friends are more important than work, she's cancelled work and she and her boyfriend are coming. With friends like that, why do I need men? All they do is make me miserable. My friendships on the other hand make me so happy. I need to remember this next time someone asks me out for dinner. (2011!)

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Re: How to avoid a potentially embarrassing situation

posted at 9/7/2009 2:37 PM BST

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But he felt no sense of obligation when he went away, so why bother now?

Are you sure you didn't mention the plan to stay at your parents' when you spoke about it before? Either way, he sounds polite to me, not offputting.

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Re: How to avoid a potentially embarrassing situation

posted at 9/7/2009 2:42 PM BST

SillySpice

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I agree with Dazzling. He wouldn't put himself into a potentially embarassing situation (with all your friends and family there) if he was just feeling obliged! He would seriously stay away. Also, he had every opportunity to cancel on Tuesday when he rang you.

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Re: How to avoid a potentially embarrassing situation

posted at 9/7/2009 2:46 PM BST

Lily

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I dunno, TBH. He does know it's my family home, hence why I'm having the do in the village. So perhaps he's put two and two together. But there are loads of people staying there, it won't just be him, me, my mum and dad! Anyway if that's the problem why doesn't he say????

As for why he didn't feel obliged - I don't know ... I don't know why he's coming, to be honest. I wish he'd be a bit more upfront. :(

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