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posted at 20/10/2009 5:55 AM BST
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First post: 20/4/2008
Last post: 18/11/2009
I havent had an orgasm in 3 weeks :S
I dont know if for some people this is normal I just feel very weird about it. I used to always want to do things and now I dont :S
I don't know if I've got to a point of just giving up on it..
Not sure what I'm asking for just needed to get it out of me :(

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posted at 20/10/2009 7:42 AM BST
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Last post: 16/11/2009
Its only been 3 weeks!!
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posted at 20/10/2009 10:39 AM BST
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Have you tried to have one?
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posted at 20/10/2009 4:41 PM BST
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hi pinkie hon.

Is then when you are with MrPink, or *ahem* alone...??

"and that's all i have to say about that..."

Re: Personal Issue

posted at 21/10/2009 9:46 AM BST
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Choc Jo-3 weeks is the longest its ever been for me so feels weird. Used to do it every day, sometimes more than once a day :S

I have tried and it didn't work and Mr Pink has tried too-have almost got there but just missing it.
It just gets to me so when I can't it makes me not want to try again :S I seem to have really gone off it which makes me feel horrible. It makes me feel really down not being able to come during sex-even though I know lots of females cant. So it kinda feels linked to my depression cos it really gets to me.

I've stopped using my vibrator cos I don't want to be dependant on it-which I felt I was getting-and it's also from my ex so it sometimes links to that.

Re: Personal Issue

posted at 21/10/2009 1:33 PM BST
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First post: 31/8/2003
Last post: 9/11/2009
Are you on any antidepressant medication? these play havoc with ability to orgasm.
I'd say bugger being worried about being dependent on your vibrator, if it works, use it, maybe get a new one? it might kick start things for you again!!

Re: Personal Issue

posted at 22/10/2009 6:47 AM BST
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Strawberry, yeah I'm on antidepressants-that sucks about it affecting it! :( and im possibly going to have to up my dosage soon so that's going to be even worse.

Hmm maybe I'll try sometime on the weekend with the vibe..I can't afford a new one atm

Re: Personal Issue

posted at 22/10/2009 7:19 AM BST
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I'd say stop trying. The pressure of needing to orgasm can make it stressful, and stress won't allow that to happen. Just leave it for a while. Don't try.
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posted at 22/10/2009 5:23 PM BST
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Last post: 9/11/2009
Good point chocolatejo but just curious, how long have you been on anti depressant medication and were you previously able to orgasm while you were on medication and now your not able to? Do you absolutely HAVE to increase your dosage? because speaking from my own personal experience I think having this medication affect your sex life and ability to orgasm is depressing in it's own right.










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posted at 23/10/2009 8:56 AM BST
Total posts: 298
First post: 20/4/2008
Last post: 18/11/2009
Umm I've been on them for a few months and I guess it has been affected around the same time-just didnt really notice it at the start cos of other things going on.
I'm thinking a visit to the doctor next week some time should be done-unsure if I'll be confident enough to bring up the sex stuff :S
hmm maybe ill leave it for a bit and try suss out the medication first..hmm just annoying :S :(
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