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"Don't get wrapped up with just one guy," advises Talane Miedaner, the very happily married author of The Secret Laws Of Attraction - The Effortless Way To Get The Relationship You Want (McGraw Hill). "We're all looking for that one in a million, but how many people have you actually dated? Thirty? That's a long way from a million. It would certainly improve your true love odds if you saw a few more people." Think of it this way: every date and/or relationship takes you a step closer to Mr Sexy Soul Mate.

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