A beginners guide to fetishism

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Here\'s our run-down of the most popular fetishes but before you start:

• Only indulge if you both feel comfortable - if you don\'t like what you or your partner is doing then say so

• Stay away from asphyxiation - some people find the sensation of not being able to breathe very arousing. This is very dangerous

• If he wants to dress up in a wetsuit to have sex, don\'t laugh: a fetish often displays someone\'s innermost desires. Be respectful and try it

Domination

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You get to tell him what to do. Some women force their partner to lick the toilet clean or cut the lawn with scissors. You might just fancy keeping him under your stilettos for half an hour and making him beg for sex

Submission

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He gets to tell you what to do. Get your master to make you sit at his feet, naked, while he watches football - only when the match finishes will he make love to you

Bondage

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You might not want to invest in a torture chamber straight away, but taking it in turns to tie each other up during sex can be a real turn-on

Spanking

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Start off with spanking, using the hand - take it in turns to lie on each others\' laps and gently whack each other. Like it? Try doing it harder. You\'ll need to work out a code word for when either of you has had enough, as pleading for your partner to stop is part of the pleasure!

Exhibitionism

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Some exhibitionists take to wearing low-cut tops, short skirts, see-through clothes, etc. Others get a Polaroid and make their partners watch them naked for hours (without touching), taking explicit photos

Voyeurism

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It\'s wonderful to put on a show for a man who likes to watch (or to have him do one for you) - no touching until you\'re both dying for it, of course 

Al fresco

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Lot of couples are into doing it outdoors. For some the frisson comes from the thought of being caught in the act, others adore the fresh air. Just make sure your chosen venue isn\'t likely to get you arrested!

Feet

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Suck them, tease them, clean them, dry them, ride them and discover the joys that give pleasure to millions!

Watersports

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Urinating on each other can be very erotic. Try it in the bath to see if it does anything for you

Dressing up as dogs

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Some men like nothing better than to have a woman wearing a fluffy tail and a collar, eating from a bowl and woofing before they take her on all fours!

Rubber, leather, PVC

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Go to a sex shop and see if any of the rubber, leather and PVC items turn you on. All the accoutrements for most mainstream fetishes will be there - it\'s fun to shop with your partner and chat through things