10 things he wants you to know about his body

10 top tips on navigating your way around his body.

by Veronica Kirby
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Navigate your way around his body

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Just because we like our inner thigh tickled or our nipples gently sucked doesn\'t always mean it\'s going to work for our blokes. We got a group of men together, plied them with compliments and the drink of their choice, and asked them to tell us what they like, what they want... and what makes them shrivel up like a dried apricot!

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The G Spot

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\"We do have a G-spot!\" cried one focus group attendee when it was suggested that a woman\'s G-spot was unmatched in a man. There\'s a wee place inside his rectum that can be reached with your finger or thumb - it feels like a hard, rough walnut, and that\'s his G-spot. When massaged firmly, it can create a delicious feeling for your bloke. Having said that...

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Communicate

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One person\'s erogenous zone is another\'s no-way-are-you-putting-it-up-there zone. In other words, while shoving your index finger up his anus at a highly charged moment may be recommended in some of those books by your bed, it\'s just not for everybody. Ask first.

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A penis is not a toy

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The penis is an extremely sensitive organ. As one of our men begged us: \"Play with it as much as you want, please do, but never, ever yank it\".

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Blue balls

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He really does get \'blue balls\' - although the technical term is prostatic congestion and, contrary to what he might tell you, it\'s not life threatening, nor will it make his balls fall off. The aching feeling he experiences is sort of painful, sort of enjoyable, and it\'s easily relieved via orgasm (we can help here) or a warm shower

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Explore

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There are potential erogenous zones all over his body. Try kissing the bit between his lower lip and chin (lots of nerve endings there), gently sucking the area around his Adam\'s apple, or stroking the perineum - the bit between his testicles and anus.

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Frenulum

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He\'s got a secret place called a frenulum - it\'s that silky bit of skin below the head of the penis, on the \'seam side\'. The name\'s not important, but the area is - it\'s highly sensitive and responsive, so indulge him with some gentle stroking, kissing and licking.

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Blow-job

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\"There is no such thing as too many blow-jobs.\" Nuff said.

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Massage him

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Just as you appreciate a massage when you get home from work, so does he. Firm, confident strokes are best... \'and keep the fingernails for later\', suggests one of our guys.

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Ball control

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Don\'t forget about the balls. If you\'re unsure as to how to proceed, caress them gently, as if they are breakable (think eggs here) and see how you go. If you hear moaning, you\'re on the right track.

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Give him some compliments

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He really is just as self-conscious about his body as you are about yours. So compliment it. \'And telling me I have nice eyes doesn\'t cut it,\' complains one of our guys. \'What I really want to be told is that my penis is huge, even if it isn\'t, and that I\'m hotter than George Clooney... or Justin Timberlake, or whoever it is that you currently fancy. We also wouldn\'t mind if you never, ever tell us about your last boyfriend who was actually \"too big\"\'.

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