In the mood for love
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Couple in launderette
By Anna Smith
In 27 Dresses, a serial bridesmaid finally finds love - but how does a real-life single girl get her man? We\'ve put together 10 top tips to put you and your man in the mood for love - even if he doesn\'t know he\'s your man yet...
Share your dreams
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Couple talking
Never mind food - one of the best ways to man\'s heart is through good old-fashioned conversation. Sharing dreams and discovering common ground can be a huge turn on and give a relationship staying power. If you\'re having a chat with a guy you like, try to ask him interesting, quirky questions that reveal his passions and hopes. Think questions about happy childhood memories and future ambitions. He\'ll love you for listening - just make sure you don\'t interrupt or come on too strong. The mood has to be right for this one.
Plan a picnic
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Plan a picnic
Spring is on the way, opening up a whole new arena of romantic possibilities in the great outdoors. Try surprising him with a picnic - it\'s an oldie but a goodie. Pack all the food you know he loves, along with a nice bottle of bubbly. A pleasant walk to the perfect spot should get the blood flowing and give you plenty of chance for a heart-to-heart before you settle down in the grass, all alone, with no-one around for miles...
Give the perfect gift
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Couple exchanging gifts
Anyone can buy flowers and chocolates - if you want to win over a man with a great gift, make it personal. Find out about his enthusiasms: is there a particular band, team or author he loves? Friends and social networking sites should be able to fill you in. The more obscure the better - you want to find something unusual, like a charming, battered second hand copy of his favourite book bought online. Try the old "saw this and thought of you" line - don\'t make it look like a grand gesture. He\'ll know you "get" him, but won\'t feel pressured. And every time he looks at it, he\'ll think of you.
Get sporty
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Couple sky diving
There\'s nothing like an adrenaline-fuelled activity to get the heart pumping and the pulse racing - and you definitely want to be there when he\'s in that mood! Suggest an adventurous activity as a date - it can be anything from kayaking to skydiving - and he\'ll be impressed with your bravery and go-getting attitude. Hopefully, you\'ll bond over the excitement and shared experience, and end up sealing the deal over a romantic dinner afterwards.
Watch a movie
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Couple watching TV
Picking the right film for seduction is a tricky one. All-out soppy dramas will look too obvious - feisty romantic comedies like 27 Dresses will make him laugh and soften him up for the romantic finale. Believe it or not, mainstream action movies are a great choice too. Surveys have indicated that all the thrills of an action film put couples into a state of excitement and energy - and you know what you can do with that!
Find a killer dress
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Woman in a dress
If you\'re planning to knock him dead at a party, you\'re going to need the right dress - not just any little black number, but something that means he can\'t take his eyes off you. Check list: does it fit like a glove? Is it sexy without looking cheap or too revealing? Is it a colour that really suits you? Does it look amazing with your best heels? Make sure you practise sitting down in it, etc; if you look fab from all angles, this is an investment you won\'t regret. And if you\'re lucky enough to have this in your wardrobe already, you\'ll know it - it\'s the one everyone always compliments you on. Job done.
Flirt like they used to
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Woman with a feather
Some classic flirtation rituals have never gone out of fashion, precisely because they work. Deep down men love to protect women - yes, even metrosexuals - so sharing a touch of vulnerability can open up romantic doors. Whether you drop something and let him pick is up or ask for his help with a work problem, it\'ll help him feel like he\'s looking out for you - one of the key elements in a long-term relationship.
Get culture
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Couple at a museum
A bit of culture goes a long way when it comes to connecting with a potential partner. It doesn\'t have to be a traditional art gallery or museum, check local listings for unusual exhibitions and events that will get you talking. If you\'re feeling racy, try a trip to the
Amora Sex Academy in London, a centre that celebrates love, sex and relationships. Book a hotel for afterwards, and let the rest take care of itself.
Go wild
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Lovebirds
Bring out the child in him by suggesting a trip to the zoo. All those cute, funny animals will help you share laughter and remind you what simple fun is all about. Unconsciously, seeing you flourish in a family-friendly environment could help him picture a long-term future with you, too, although roping in a friend\'s kid might be going too far. Three\'s a crowd on this trip.
Musicality
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Woman singing
Whether or not you have the voice of an angel, karaoke is a surprisingly easy seduction tool. Try somewhere similar to London\'s
Lucky Voice, where you and your man can have a private room to sing your heart out to either a romantic duet or cheesy classic. There\'s a reason why humour is a top turn-on and what better way to laugh yourselves silly than singing some guilty pleasures. Benny And The Jets, anyone?
