Text flirting

Text flirting tips: handbag.com brings you 10 tips on how to text flirt and leave him wanting more

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Let\'s get textual! How to text flirt

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By Zoe Lea

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If you’re looking for a quick way to liven up your relationship or want to get a date with someone you’ve been lusting after, then pick up your mobile, let your fingers do the talking and get text flirting! Not sure what to do? Read on for our 10 sexy text flirt tips...

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Check the number

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Before sending any saucy text, be it to a new man or a long term partner, double check that you have the right number. It sounds obvious, but there is nothing more embarrassing than sending a flirty text message to the wrong person – especially if those messages are about to get very intimate.

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Don\'t txt tlk

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When it comes to text flirting, a confusing text is not a sexy text, so avoid using too much text talk. A text full of icons and symbols might be interpreted as something else, so read through your message before you send it, especially if your phone uses predictive text. 

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Time it right

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Pick your moment to start text flirting. Do you know what your partner will be doing when he gets your message? If they’re in a business meeting, it might not be the best time to text him a naughty question, but if they’re getting ready to meet you, or they’re on the train home? Perfect.

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Keep it light

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The key to successful text flirting is all about having fun. Any message that makes you sound needy and desperate will be a big turn off, so don’t end messages with \"please text me back\", try asking open ended questions instead.

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Choose your words carefully

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Avoid subject matters that are boring. Send a message that will make your partner feel something and initiate a reaction. “How are you feeling right now?” is more likely to get a positive response than, “I hate my job.” Humor is also wonderful in text flirting but pick your jokes carefully, remember that sarcasm won’t transfer via text!

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Snappy and short

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There’s often an urge to get carried away and forget what the texting is all about – flirting! Keep your messages to an absolute minimum. A quick love note is always better than a long text that you have to scroll down to read. 

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Promises, promises

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A great way to move the text flirting along is to ask provoking questions or hint at sexy declarations. IOU love notes, sexy promises for future dates, or cheeky questions are all great ways to engage your partner and build up the excitement.

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Be responsive

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If a text makes you smile or laugh, text back your reaction to your partner. Often with texting, the emotions can get lost and flirting is all about emotions, so let your partner know that you’re enjoying the messages that they’re sending.

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Delayed replying

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There is nothing more attractive than someone is out of reach, so create that illusion and wait a few moments before sending your reply. This works best when the text flirting is well underway, your partner will desperately be checking their phone for your response, so wait before hitting send and let the suspense build.

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Close the deal

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If you want to turn the texting into dialing, send a simple message explaining that. Don’t abruptly stop the texting because you’ve decided to move it along to the next level.  Invite your partner to call you or text a message with the time and place for a date. But whatever you do, end the flirting on a high note – even if you’re only arranging another time to text flirt...

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Let\'s get dirty! Sex talk and how to do it

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From quirky to classic, top 10 great date ideas

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Get the latest relationship advice on handbag.com

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