Ultimate guide to dirty talk: What to say and how to say it

We've delved into the pages of Friendly Festish: A Beginner's Guide to Kink by Emily Dubberley to find out how to become masters of talking dirty.

Here are five tips to get you mouthing off...

1. Talk Softly

Shouting in someone's ear is unlikely to get them going, so keep the volume to a whisper. Speaking quietly will force your partner to move closer and concentrate on your words. Plus, a deeper tone of voice will make all your words more sensual.

2. Slow your voice down

A slow voice is easier to follow and your partner will cling on to your every word, anticipating the next erotic phrase you're going to utter.

3. Throw in the occasional pause

Pausing mid sentence, especially during the particularly tantalising bits will make his mind race ahead to the naughty bits. For example, if you say 'I want to slowly kiss my way down your body, lingering when I get to your....inner thighs', the pause will make his mind race ahead to the naughtiest scenario, building sexual tension.

4. Don't think too exotic

Don't go over the top and make everything farcical and completely unbelievable. Start with something simple and wait until you're both comfortable before introducing characters, props or scenarios.

5. Talk things through first

Chat with each other before you leap into dirty talk to establish the words that are a turn on and a turn off. It's also worth discovering what makes you both laugh because calling him a 'huge throbbing love machine' and descending into fits of giggles isn't necessarily sexy!

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