Oprah Winfrey & Stedman Graham
21 years. That's how long Oprah has been engaged. 21 years. However don't expect to see the talk show host actually walk down the aisle as she has always said the proposal was all she needed. 'A piece of paper does not define a life. I always knew that was not the answer for me. I was like most women though. I wanted a man who, I wanted to know he did want it. So I'm telling you, after he proposed, I was over it.'