DON'T: Pretend you're fine
Pretending you don't care is like putting a cork in a bottle of coke and shaking it. The pressure will build until you explode.
Surround yourself with friends who will listen and don't be afraid to cry and mourn the loss of your relationship.
It's okay to be angry, hurt, humiliated or lost and the sooner you express these feelings the sooner you can cope with them.
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