Have Just-Met Sex Tonight
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Sex in the beginning is hot, frantic and fuelled by lust rather than ruined by domesticity. Want it back again? The trick to recapturing that fresh excitement is to create sex scenarios that push you both firmly out of your comfort zones and back into treating each other like good old-fashioned sex objects. Just like you used to at the start, remember? We take a peek inside Tracey Cox\'s latest sex guide, Supersex For Life, the great sex guide for long-term lovers, and bring you a few highlights to reignite that spark in the bedroom.
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Play \"What if you could do anything you want?\"
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It\'s a fantasy game. Ask them, "What\'s the thing you\'d most like to do in bed that would surprise me? Then... I\'ll tell you." If they\'re shy, you start. Make it silly or funny to begin with and if they claim there\'s nothing they\'d like to do that they haven\'t already done, tell them to make something up. Believe me, people always have something up their sleeve (or less savoury parts). Letting them pretend it\'s "made up" lets them put something out there and see your reaction without risking anything. If it\'s, "I\'d rather scoop my eyes out with a teaspoon," all they have to do is say, "Well, you said to make anything up!" Sneaky or what?! The more you share, the more they\'ll share. Give examples to establish parameters, so they know how far they can go - from a relatively tame, "I\'d like to tie you up," to, "I\'d love you to pretend I\'m a hooker/pretend you\'re a hooker."
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Sleep naked
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Always. But especially if you\'re going through a low or no-sex period. Skin-to-skin snuggling at least satisfies the cuddle craving.
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Have a bed picnic
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Jump into bed (or on the sofa) in sexy underwear and surround yourselves with goodies like champers, chocolates, strawberries and other favourite yummies. Put a sexy DVD on the telly and half watch it as you loll around flicking through some sex books. Show each other things that take your fancy and use sticky notes to mark those you want to try later. If you\'re shy, read separately, then swap books, adding a different coloured sticky on things you agree to.
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Try the `Kivin method\'
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Transform a predictable oral sex session for her from dreary to dynamite with one slick move. Also called ‘Tahitian cunnilingus\', you simply position your head at right angles to her body. You\'re licking up and down but because your head is perpendicular to her body, your tongue travels from side to side, producing an entirely new sensation. Place two fingers either side of the hood. Put the flat of your thumb on her perineum (the smooth bit between her bottom and vagina) and press firmly. Increase the speed the more aroused she gets and focus on the head of the clitoris.
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Innocently chat to him while he\'s in the shower
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Then say, "God your body turns me on." Quickly remove your clothes, and step in to give him a hand-job using a soapy, thick washcloth. Both the texture of the cloth and the spontaneity of the gesture guarantees you won\'t have to worry about your make-up running. It\'ll all be over in a flash!
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Mix it up every single time
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Change one of the following elements for each session you have: the time of day you do it, what room you do it in, what you\'re wearing, what position you choose, who initiates and what the focus of the session is (hand-job, oral, intercourse, etc).
Masturbate in front of each other
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Come on! You\'ve read this advice a hundred times before but avoided doing it out of embarrassment/prudishness/whatever. Thing is, you will learn so much about each other by doing this, I bloody well insist you at least give it a try! If you\'re really shy, close your eyes so you can\'t see them watching. Even if you don\'t actually masturbate with your fingers any more (why would you when a vibrator does the job sooooo well for you?), pretending to do it is enough. Men are generally less shy about showing off but don\'t launch into so quickly that she doesn\'t get to see what technique, grip and hold you use. This isn\'t just a turn-on exercise, it\'s a show-and-tell one.
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Have sex with your eyes open
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70% of couples have sex with their eyes closed and only 15% open them during orgasm, according to US author David Schnarch. "Most of us tune out our partner at a time that\'s supposed to be the most intimate," he says. Make eye contact all the way through. You\'ll laugh, you might even cry (some people do!) but you sure as well will feel more connected.
Start a `sex jar\'
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A golden oldie that works a treat. Each write down 10 things you\'d like to try. Rip into separate points, fold, and put all of them into a jar. Pick out one a week to try.
Send sex texts
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"I\'ve been thinking about you inside me all day." "If you want it right now, I\'m in the upstairs bedroom." Remember when we did it on the beach?" The kids are asleep..." Or, when you\'re feeling particularly horny (and they seem like they\'d be receptive), "I want you to f**k me. Hard."
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Play stalker
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Lead him into a dark room, take off his shirt, then tie his hands behind his back with his tie before stripping him stark naked. You remain clothed. Stand behind him and tell him you\'ve been watching him from across the road with binoculars.
Dare to do the clichés
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Like chocolate body paint poured on and licked off. The reason why they\'re clichés is because they\'re often what people want to do, but are too scared to.
Believe you\'re hot
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Forget traffic-stopping breasts, swoon-worthy biceps; forget 300 notches on the bedpost, satin sheets, sex swings, a vice-tight vagina, or membership of the 10-inch club, nothing - and I mean nothing - is going to get you further in bed than confidence. Scaredy-cat, tentative, "Is that OK?" - every-three-minutes-type lovers make the other person nervous. And if confidence is the sexiest thing both of you can take to bed, anxiety is the equivalent of wearing grey, baggy pants. This means being open to new things, up for anything, and having enough self-belief to think you\'re pretty damn OK in the sack.
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Make friends with his porn
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Most men watch porn. Fact. You might not like it, but it\'s going to happen anyway so if you can\'t beat it, join him. Go online solo and Google ‘free porn\'. Find something you find arousing, then when he gets home, put a beer in one hand, take him by the other and show him what you found. If you embrace his secret explorations rather than ban them, you could well have discovered a great way to ‘kink\' things up a bit - safely.
