Sex tip of the day: 3 ways to switch off and enjoy oral sex more

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Your brain is taking over, you're panicking, worrying and not enjoying his technique...

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If you're too busy worrying about him going 'down there' to actually enjoy what he's doing 'down there' you need to read on.

For you to enjoy oral sex you have to feel confident and comfortable, which can be easier said than done when a thousand questions are firing through your head.

Relax and go with it with these three top tips...

1. Assuming you're perfectly comfortable with the guy you're between the sheets with, your nervousness about oral sex could be down to timing. It sounds silly, but if you're one day off a period or worried about your pre-wax appointment hair, you probably won't be able to relax and enjoy the sensations. Everything's up to you, so make sure you're just as in the mood as he is!

2. It might sound counter-intuitive but try focussing on something else. Lots of women struggle when their man goes down on them because they're worried about weird smells and what 'it' looks like. In reality, if he's going down there it means he wants too, so don't start worrying unnecessarily. Turn off your brain by focussing on something else, like your favourite holiday spot or a sexy scene you saw in a film. Or start imagining the erotic scenes in Fifty Shades or Bared To You.

3. Don't be nervous about giving him direction. If your brain's in gear and you're still not enjoying oral, maybe you need to address his technique? Let's face it, there's no school of oral sex than men can go to for advice, they have to learn what works best from you! Guide him, tell him what he's doing right (let's be positive, there's no point ruining his confidence) and take charge of your own orgasm.

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