We all know that the basic '69' position is all about configuring your bodies so you can give each other simultaneous oral sex. But there are ways to control the situation and make it even more pleasurable for you.
If you're coordinated and confident it's time to mix things up with the '69'. If you want to control how much pressure you receive, make sure you roll your body on top of his. Straddle your man's chest, facing his toes, and lean forward so that you can straighten out your legs. In this position you'll be able to lift and lower your hips to find the right amount of stimulation for you.
Another way to experience the '69' is to have your partner lie across the width of the bed with his head hanging ever so slightly over the edge. You'll need to stand and lean over him, which can be a killer on your back muscles! Start kissing his mouth and then crawl over him onto the bed until you reach his groin.
If you choose to try the '69' the other way around (with him on top) you will have both hands free for more teasing. In this position you'll have better access to his highly sensitive shaft, testicles and perineum.
Finally, there's the side-by-side pose, which tends to be more comfortable for both you and him. Bend your knees and put your feet flat on the bed so you can use each others' lower thighs as a cushion.
Don't be afraid to experiment and find the position that's right for you. This is an incredibly intimate position, so work up to it with some of our other oral sex tips.
Worth a try?
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