Sex tip of the day: 3 ways to ask for exactly what you want in bed

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It's less about what you say but when you say it that will make him change his ways...

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Be the sort of woman who dares to ask for everything she wants in the bedroom with these simple tips and tricks...

1. Pick your time carefully

The rush of hormones and endorphins after a session in the bedroom will make you both calm and relaxed, giving you the perfect opportunity to mention what you would like to try next time. Even if it's not going so great in the moment, don't talk about sex issues during sex - it's a sure fire way to kill the mood. Talking about sex is a delicate topic, so choose moments when you're both relaxed, like sitting in front of the TV.

2. Take control

If your subtle hints and calm manoeuvres haven't made a dent on his boring bedroom technique you might need to take control. When you're in the moment take his hand and direct it to exactly where you want it, telling him that's what you like. He'll be eager to please and will probably be turned on by your domineering attitude. Sometimes actions speak louder (and are less embarrassing) than words.

3. Try a bit of reverse psychology

If you're nervous about asking him to try something unusual try turning the tables on him instead. Ask him what his fantasies are and once he's nervously revealed his big sexy secrets he's bound to ask you to reveal yours in return. This is an amazing opportunity to say how you feel in an already honest and open conversation. Result.

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