So you want him to tie you to the bed, but the idea of forming the words required to make that sentence fill you with dread, right?
Sometimes it's not easy to tell your partner all the things you want to try in the bedroom, but there are a few ways to broach the subject without suffering untold humiliation.
The trick is to create an open discussion in a relaxed environment, like a night on the sofa watching the TV. Choose a film or television programme that contains a sexy scene that you want to recreate, then say to your partner, 'Maybe we should try that?'
If he starts laughing hysterically or questioning your sanity it's probably safe to say he's not willing to give it a try between the sheets.
In reality, your question is likely to start a conversation and because you're not naked the pressure to 'perform' there and then should be reduced.
If this doesn't work, try describing a fictional 'sexy dream' you had and see how he responds. If he's freaked out by the whole idea you have the 'I know right it's so weird I dreamed something so crazy' line to fall back on.
What do you think?
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