Speaking up about what you want in the bedroom is key to having a happy, and mind blowing, sex life. We all know that. However sometimes all this talking isn't a good thing.
Let your man know you trust him enough to call the shots. Let him take charge and ask him to surprise you.
He'll be chuffed that you're not telling him what he's doing wrong, and you never know - he might stumble upon something amazing.
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