Sex tip of the day: 3 things you really can't learn from porn

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Watching it with your man might sound kinky but it doesn't have all the answers...

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Loads of sexperts recommend watching porn with your partner, especially if you want to learn a few new tricks, spice things up and find out how he 'reacts' to certain kinky situations.

If you're super nervous about bringing up bondage a great way to gauge his reaction is to watch him watch an S&M porn scene...if he calls it awful and gross you're probably not on to a winner!

But porn isn't the be all and end all when it comes to sex advice (even though that's where most guys receive their biggest dose of sex education). Here are three key things you really really can't (and shouldn't) learn from pornography...

1. How to be sexy

There's a certain stereotypical 'look' associated with porn stars- think fishnets, too tight bras and crotchless pants - and while this might be fun for one night of debauchery it's not the definition of sexy. Instead of just assuming, ask your bloke what he finds sexy. You'll probably be surprised to discover it's a pair of jeans and a white tee, a cocktail dress or a silk dressing gown...something far more covered and made with less polyester.

2. The 'pattern' of sex

Because men are the main consumers of porn, videos are geared to their 'needs'. Predictably, this includes endless blow jobs, minimal foreplay and about as much delicacy as a bag of potatoes. But this is not how sex should operate in reality. As one half of the couple you are entitled to as much foreplay as you need. Plus, most of the ancient techniques recommend a much longer time spent exploring each others' bodies.

3. What your partner will want in the bedroom

All women don't enjoy the same things and neither do men. Just because the girl in the video is tottering on six inch clear plastic heels doesn't mean that's what your man wants to happen. The only way you can really know what he's fantasising about is to ask him. Simple.

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