Sex tip of the day: How to have a successful threesome

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Imagining the Ross from Friends moment? Here's how to make it work in real life...

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We've delved into the pages of Great In Bed: Thrill the body...blow the mind by Debby Herbenick and Grant Stoddard to find out their advice about getting a little one on two action...

1. Make sure everyone's happy

Whether you've been invited to join a couple or you want to invite and easy going friend into your bedroom, the key thing you need to remember is enthusiasm. Make sure that everyone who's going to be involved is 100%, no-turning-back okay with the plan. Otherwise your fantasy can quickly descend into a nightmare.

2. Make yourself clear

Discuss your terms carefully and make sure that everyone is on the same page. Sexual jealousy can pop up without warning in group situations, so make sure you're prepared for any negative feelings that may rush into your head.

3. Decide on the male/female ratio

According to Herbenick and Stoddard, the dynamics of male/male/female are actually better than female/female/male, but obviously it's up to you to decide who get's involved!

4. Say if you're not having fun

It may have been your ultimate fantasy but now that you're in the moment you hate it, so what can you do? Well, hopefully if you've discussed your terms well enough your decision to stop will end the role play and everyone will stop. No one wants to see their significant other carry on the 'fun' without them.

5. Be normal after the act

If it was amazing and everything went great, you need to make a few decisions. Do you want to do it again? How did your partner feel? What will it be like to see 'sex friend Susie' in the shops tomorrow? Try acting normal and nonchalant and if that doesn't work have a full and frank conversation. It will be awkward, but at least you can get your concerns out in the open.

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