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you meet him ....your mr wonderful,he wines and dines you seduces you time flies by as your having so much fun then suddenley YOU REALIZE... your madly in love with this guy,after a while his texts messages recite somethin like this....So sorry couldnt make it really busy??!! or...sorry babe i thought you were being funny???...or SORRY ive only just woke up?! i mean do blokes think we were born yesterday instead of screaming RIGHT WERE FINISHED why do we reply with kkx i understand love you x please help me make my ignorant unwilling boyf see me more than his convienent doormat ladies...HELP?????XXXLOU.
<font color="#999999">louise middlebrook</font>
does he have a history of "doormat ladies" then?
I thnk we may have have missed a coma Sats !!
As in -
unwilling boyf see me more than his convienent doormat [comma or fullstop ] ladies...HELP?????XXXLOU
At least thats what I think Who knows ?? !!
As in -
unwilling boyf see me more than his convienent doormat [comma or fullstop ] ladies...HELP?????XXXLOU
At least thats what I think Who knows ?? !!
Well dang, I found my original profile and sign in ! Tis me !
I may not always be right.... but I'm never wrong.
I may not always be right.... but I'm never wrong.
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I thnk we may have have missed a coma Sats !! As in - unwilling boyf see me more than his convienent doormat [comma or fullstop ] ladies...HELP?????XXXLOU At least thats what I think Who knows ?? !!
Posted by Mr.Mannering*wishes she had a sheriff's badge*
Posted by Mr.Mannering*wishes she had a sheriff's badge*
I think you may very well be right LOL
Anyways, my advice to you is if you feel, from his texts but also his persona, that things have changed and you feel he's making excuses to the point you think he wants to say it's over, but doesn't - then YOU need to take control and end it. After all, only YOU can let yourself be his doormat ... he can't *make* you into that.
(Mr Mannering* - how was my punctuation?)
Jx
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Im frightened to reply now in case my punctuation is picked on ha ha.
Only you can decide how you let someone else treat you, if you feel it's not the same either talk to him and find out why or dump him.
Only you can decide how you let someone else treat you, if you feel it's not the same either talk to him and find out why or dump him.
Assuming the punctuation . . . then you can only make him see you as something other than his "convenient doormat" if you behave as something other than his "convenient doormat".
If you honestly think that he's messing you around then do something about it. You're fed up with replying "I understand" then don't say it. If you're fed up with his behaviour then either tell him its unacceptable and see if he's prepared to do something about it.
Years ago I was with a boyfriend and I became a doormat and very low. In the end I dumped him and vowed never let a man turn me into a doormat again. Some time later I saw this ex bf and he said that he was devastated I'd dumped him because he could see I was down at the time and was just waiting for me to come out of low point. His behaviour to get me doing things or making suggestions wasn't bossing me about it was trying to help me. My point is that had I talked to him about it, things may have been different.
If your bf isn't prepared to address things then he isn't the man for you but give him the chance to put things right but in order to do that you need to address your own problems/faults.
If you honestly think that he's messing you around then do something about it. You're fed up with replying "I understand" then don't say it. If you're fed up with his behaviour then either tell him its unacceptable and see if he's prepared to do something about it.
Years ago I was with a boyfriend and I became a doormat and very low. In the end I dumped him and vowed never let a man turn me into a doormat again. Some time later I saw this ex bf and he said that he was devastated I'd dumped him because he could see I was down at the time and was just waiting for me to come out of low point. His behaviour to get me doing things or making suggestions wasn't bossing me about it was trying to help me. My point is that had I talked to him about it, things may have been different.
If your bf isn't prepared to address things then he isn't the man for you but give him the chance to put things right but in order to do that you need to address your own problems/faults.
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A good kick up the arse might work wonders.........
Honeychile - I love your subtle approach !!!!!
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Well , I aim to please..... and it was only an idea.....
Talk to him about it - don't just pretend you haven't noticed/don't mind. If he then doesn't treat you with respect, dump him!
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