I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and everything is swimmingly along nicely apart from the sex. Infact, we havent had the chance to have sex yet. I've moved back home to live with my parents whilst i finish my degree (im 19 and a poor student!) so we find it hard to find the oppertunity to have sex. My parents generally leave us to it and only shout up the stairs if dinner is ready etc but i get nervous at the idea of having sex whilst their in the house.... i would die if they walked in or heard anything! Im too much of a prude to go for a long country walk and find a nice quiet field, and im terrified of going for a drive and doing the naughty somewhere as recently my friend and her boyfriend got caught by the police and got a warning!
Im desperate to jump on him though.... does anybody have any ideas?
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I would perhaps refrain from having sex in your parents house...its amazing how much they can hear. Can you not go to his house? Wait until your parents are out? Hotel for the night maybe? You can get pretty good deals at some of the travel lodge type places. Other than trying to find a nice sunny spot or parking the car up (which isn't very romantic for the first time), I can't think of any other places at the mo.
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The hotel idea seems the best one so far?
Don't bother trying your first time with him sneakily whilst the parents are in. You won't relax knowing they're downstairs or in the other room, which will make it uncomfrotable and an experience you'd rather forget!
Why not write out a date card just for u both and give it to him in a romantic way so u have to do it on that particular day at that particular place..? such as the hotel room, his house, your house (providing no-ones in) or why not when they're asleep???
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Don't bother trying your first time with him sneakily whilst the parents are in. You won't relax knowing they're downstairs or in the other room, which will make it uncomfrotable and an experience you'd rather forget!
Why not write out a date card just for u both and give it to him in a romantic way so u have to do it on that particular day at that particular place..? such as the hotel room, his house, your house (providing no-ones in) or why not when they're asleep???
xx
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I was going to say the hotel as well. Or if they a socialable parents, find out if they're going out at the weekend, then try then.
I live with my parents and find it hard to have sex with my boyfriend, but we generally just have to wait til the weekend when they go away.
Like Cosmokaty says, you're not going to relax if you're worried someone will hear you or walk in on you, so try and find somewhere where you are both at ease and won't be disturbed.
Good luck and have fun!
I live with my parents and find it hard to have sex with my boyfriend, but we generally just have to wait til the weekend when they go away.
Like Cosmokaty says, you're not going to relax if you're worried someone will hear you or walk in on you, so try and find somewhere where you are both at ease and won't be disturbed.
Good luck and have fun!
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Can you afford a weekend away? I'm a penniless student but my boyfriend and I sometimes save up enough to have a night or two away somewhere - have managed Chester and York on a tiny budget, London with a bit of cash from parents, and camping in Wales which was great fun.
You can get a very nice B&B for about �60, depending on where you go, and if you have a car then transport is sorted! I think the first time with a new guy should be a bit more special than a quickie while your parents are downstairs... not that I would ever dare do that anyway lol.
You can get a very nice B&B for about �60, depending on where you go, and if you have a car then transport is sorted! I think the first time with a new guy should be a bit more special than a quickie while your parents are downstairs... not that I would ever dare do that anyway lol.
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