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I've been having sex with my new boyfriend since 17th January until Saturday. We have had sex over ten times. I'm not on The Pill and we didn't use a condom. We have both been tested for STIs though. I should of had a period about 10 days ago. Could I be pregnant?
In a word yes, you could be. Pregnancy tests are readily available in Boots or if you go to a family planning clinic they may give you a test. Do one and find out. May I ask why you have been so cavalier about the risk of pregnancy (not to mention STIs) if you are right at the start of a relationship and presumably don't want to get pregnant just yet or even know this man that well? At least get the guy to wear a condom, he's a moron if he refuses and IMO you should not have sex with someone who would refuse that request. Who says he's clean - him? Or do you know for a fact because you were there when he got his results?
Good luck for whatever the test shows.
Good luck for whatever the test shows.
______________________________________<br />Chick
I was with him. And yeah, I couldn't deal with a baby right now. I till take a test soon.
Definitely go and get a test, then you will know for sure. Try and do this straight away.
Other than that, I would say go to the doctor as well and take your boyfriend with you. Not saying he would lie to you, but maybe he is more embarrassed and if he has anything might be too scared to say it to you in case he loses you.
Also, if you're under alot of stress it could be late as well so be calm and maybe it will come
Other than that, I would say go to the doctor as well and take your boyfriend with you. Not saying he would lie to you, but maybe he is more embarrassed and if he has anything might be too scared to say it to you in case he loses you.
Also, if you're under alot of stress it could be late as well so be calm and maybe it will come
erm unprotected sex usually means risk of pregnancy... dont' they teach that %&*$# in schools these days??
And further more.. if you didn't want a baby whey on EARTH were you having unprotected sex in the first place?
Sometimes there are no words.
And further more.. if you didn't want a baby whey on EARTH were you having unprotected sex in the first place?
Sometimes there are no words.
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I made a mistake and I still haven't taken a test because I am very scared.
Sorry, but "over 10 times" unprotected is not a "mistake" it's stupidity!
I think most of us have made "drunken mistakes" once or twice, but 10 times and no protection???
Do yourself a favour and do a test sooner rather than later! Putting it off is not going to change the result! The sooner you know the sooner you can deal with it!
I think most of us have made "drunken mistakes" once or twice, but 10 times and no protection???
Do yourself a favour and do a test sooner rather than later! Putting it off is not going to change the result! The sooner you know the sooner you can deal with it!
Agree with the above. Once or twice is a mistake (though frankly I've never made a 'mistake' when it comes to sex; I've ALWAYS used a condom as well as being on the pill and have never slipped up, drunk or not...).
Yes, you could be pregant; you could also have an STI. I might be particularly untrusting but in a relationship I wait 3 months before having sex without a condom, and then I get a test before wehave sex, and then a test 1 month after to make sure it's clear: I never trust anyone when it comes to my sexual health. STI's can leave you infertile and it simply isn't worth the risk.
Sorry if it seems everyone is attacking you but frankly you have an immature and irresponsible attitude to sex: I have friends like you and they drive me crazy, taking unnecessary risks with their health. I have a medical condition which means it will be harder for me to get pregnant and it makes me unbelievably angry that people like you have such a cavalier approach to sex and risk STD's which can leave you infertile, or unwanted pregnancies which you'll probably have terminated. If you're old enough to have sex, you should be mature enough to take proper precautions.
Get a pregnancy test and an STD test and in the meantime either abstain or use condoms; I also suggest you sort out long-term contraception like the pill.
Yes, you could be pregant; you could also have an STI. I might be particularly untrusting but in a relationship I wait 3 months before having sex without a condom, and then I get a test before wehave sex, and then a test 1 month after to make sure it's clear: I never trust anyone when it comes to my sexual health. STI's can leave you infertile and it simply isn't worth the risk.
Sorry if it seems everyone is attacking you but frankly you have an immature and irresponsible attitude to sex: I have friends like you and they drive me crazy, taking unnecessary risks with their health. I have a medical condition which means it will be harder for me to get pregnant and it makes me unbelievably angry that people like you have such a cavalier approach to sex and risk STD's which can leave you infertile, or unwanted pregnancies which you'll probably have terminated. If you're old enough to have sex, you should be mature enough to take proper precautions.
Get a pregnancy test and an STD test and in the meantime either abstain or use condoms; I also suggest you sort out long-term contraception like the pill.
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Oh dear, as undecided said, do a test, what is, is, you can't change what happened. Hopefully you'll be lucky on both counts, but don't play Russian Roulette with your health or future. Really hope it goes your way, love Honeychile x
Have you took a test yet?
I am sorry though but you have to be 18 to use handbag.
If it turns out that you're not pregnant for heavens sake sort out some proper contraception.. I have my fingers crossed for you.
I am sorry though but you have to be 18 to use handbag.
If it turns out that you're not pregnant for heavens sake sort out some proper contraception.. I have my fingers crossed for you.
How irresponsible?! And then coming on here and having us 'take a vote'????? Obivously too immature to bring a baby into the work, having had unprotected sex 10 times!!!!!
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