I just want to say thank you to all of your lovely wishes, you gals are the best

How was everyone's Valentines day? I had the sweetest, if not almost very fattening V'day - typical man, you tell them you are on a diet, they then buy you an acre of chocolate - what is wrong with their brains? Woman: I'm on a diet, so this means NO chocolate of any shape or form! Man: So what you really mean is that you want me to buy you loads of fatty foods to keep you fat and miserable? Right, I'm off to Thornton's!
Although I have to say my V'day was lovely, although he was excited to give me my goodies, so we celebrated it the day before! - my partners idea of romance is a pizza and wine - so cheesy but I love cheesy stuff

I also got flowers, a giant stuffed teddy, chocolates (GR!) and a dvd boxset

So sweet
Okay, so seeing as I wasn't online yesterday I'll fill in the gap, plus today's happenings
13/Feb:
B: 1x Banana & a mug of Green Tea L: 1x Tuna & cucumber sandwich, 8x grapes, 1x diet coke D: 2x small slices of pizza (BAAAAD but he surprised me with pizza, it would have been rude to say no!) 2x small glasses of wine
Cigarettes: 6
Exercise: it's private
14/Feb
B: 1x Banana L: 1x Banana D: 1x Baked potato with tuna & diet coke
Cigarettes: 6
Exercise: 1 hour on the exercise bike listening to the finest pop princesses!
Okay so Saturday was a naughty day - no more! After reading your comments, I've decided to cut out carbs completely and stick with fruit,veg & protein and a lot of water. Although with exercising, I am needing A LOT of water now

I have to say, and it sounds banana's, but knowing you guys are interested to see if I can do it, and cheering me on, is really giving me that surge to want to stick to it and generally just see if it CAN be done. Come on ladies, lets kick up our skirts and get burning the calories! It's only four months until the summer is upon us and I can guarantee that all of us want to look our hottest and feel our best! No more excuses, no more 'I'll do it tomorrow', let's just do it! I don't know about you, but I am so tired of looking at pretty dresses and thinking 'wow that is stunning but I'd need to be a size 10 at least, to pull it off', it's depressing and only we can fix this, so let's start fixing it. Also, here is a little something to get you thinking; why is it that you will work for 4 weeks to earn the money that you get paid each month, but you won't work out four times a week to earn the body that you desire? I had this thought while I was commuting at 8am and feeling cold, half asleep and miserable (I'm in Scotland - the weather is ALWAYS miserable). I mean, it just REALLY gets you thinking, right? Aren't we just neurotic? I mean, the brutal truth is that no matter what your occupation, no one particularly LIKES working, but we do, because we like the end result, the end result being money. Why on earth can't we apply this to our daily life? Are we neurotic? Or are we lazy? To get the job that you want, you HAVE to work your butt off, there are no short cuts, no easy way to do it. Yet we expect to have an amazing body, without having worked for it? Or having to continue to work to maintain a happy weight? I find now that with dieting, it is almost like having to reprogram your brain in a sense, an example of this would be before if I wanted to eat something, I simply would without even thinking about how many grams of fat, salt, sugar or calories was in it. However, now, before I think about eating something I way all of these factors up and think okay, food A has the same calories as food B, but which will fill me up? which is healthier? which will make me feel like I want to kill myself afterwards and make me feel guilty ALL day? In short, you HAVE to talk sense to yourself. I'm being to sound mad, however, put it in to perspective; if you were purchasing a car or a house etc what do you do? You weigh up the pros and cons. Why wouldn't, or doesn't, or didn't this apply to what you were putting in to your body? It is so obvious what I was doing wrong before, yet I did it for a very long time and could not work out what I was doing wrong! It was so obvious, yet I didn't see it. Perhaps due to naivety, or perhaps because I wanted something easy, something that would give me an awesome body, without requiring the hard work and dedication. Unfortunately, the ugly truth is; if you want a hot body, be prepared to work for it. However, unfortunately there are THOSE people out there, that with the magic of amazing genetics can sit on their butt, eat muffins and stay waif-thin, unfortunately, we are not those people. It sucks, it really does, but hey the majority of us aren't born millionaires either, sometimes, just sometimes, we have to work for the things we want in life.
Sorry for the loooooooong spiel but this revelation came to me and I wanted to share it.
How is everyone doing with their regime? How is life treating you?
Thanks guys, you rock!
Love and kisses x x x x x SJ
P.S. how about for fun, if anyone wants to embark upon this lose weight marathon, after we have reached our desired size we upload before & after pics? Just a fun thought

No pressure, completely voluntary of course. However, I think this may also encourage healthy habits

Hence, suggesting it! To make me do things, I need pressure! Pressure! Not healthy