I don't like gender-specific toys as a rule, although as children get older they generally tend to get drawn towards toys aimed at their own gender.
I bought our son a tea set (complete with a tray!) for his 3rd Christmas, my husband was horrified and told me that it was a waste of money, and so on... It was one of the cheapest presents he had that year and the one he played with and loved the most... go figure!