Online dating addicted?

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Hi all!
I met my current husband on an online dating website toyboywarehouse.com and we've been together since 1 year All is great between us but since a few weeks I really miss that website and even though that's not for marrieds I'd love to give it a go again!!!!
What's wrong with me???Do you guess that if I feel like doing that because something's going on between us and I don't realize it or I'm just an online dating addicted?
Btw that's making me feel nervous!!!Help!

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Do you actually feel like there's anything wrong between you - I mean, do you still feel the same way about your husband?

Or do you miss the 'thrill of the hunt' or maybe the chance to chat and meet new people?

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I think its perfectly normal to miss it, as it obviously worked for you! But I'd definitely steer clear unless you want to cause problems with your OH...

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You can have a lovely relationship and things can be working out fine but sometimes boredom does creep in. This happened to me years ago. Our relationship was fine but I got bored for some reason - I wanted some excitement but I didn't want to have an affair or hurt my partner. So i engaged in some long-distance flirting....no more than a pen-friendship....and it went nowhere, but it satisfied my urge for some attention. Some of you reading this will obviously say that if everything was fine, I wouldn't look elsewhere, or maybe I was lacking some attention....but things are never quite as simple as that - we are complex beings and must forgive ourselves for feeling this way sometimes. Just don't take any action you will regret later..

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Let's reverse the situation...if you found your husband back on a dating website what would you think?

If you wouldn't tolerate it, no matter what his excuses were, I doubt he would either. Is it worth risking your marriage for?

FJP x

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