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Can a man really have a low sex drive??
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I have been seeing a guy for about 4 months now. He never wants sex!!!!!!!!! I know I have a really high sex drive I could have sex all day everyday and I appreciate the fact that not everyone is the same. But I am lucky to get it once a week! I've tried dressing up this did work for one occasion! I have also asked if he has any fantasies he says he hasn't really got any??? REALLY!!!! I mean I've tried everything short of begging! I don't like to make the first move all the time sometimes would like to be surprised but if I leave it then I'm guaranteed no sex for ages! He says he really experienced with women but I'm no sure because of this! Apart from this he is a keeper but I'm not sure that if this doesn't resolve I'm worried I may stray! Any help or comments on simillar situation would be greatly appreciated.
I can't help much, because although I had a higher sex drive than my ex it wasn't *that much* higher so I could live with the times he didn't want it and I did (just about...). Unfortunately - and I know this really isn't helpful - you'd have to either speak to him about it, or live with the fact he's really not so keen on it as you are.
A lot of men really don't seem to be as big on sex as we'd like to think, so he's not in that big a minority either...
A lot of men really don't seem to be as big on sex as we'd like to think, so he's not in that big a minority either...
Speak to him about it,outside of the bedroom
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How old are you both? Women hit their peak in their 30s and men do in their teens so we're always at least slightly out of sync...
Agree with the others, you need to talk about this
Agree with the others, you need to talk about this
Hi guys,
I'm 25 and he's 29!! We have talked about it and he says he is just never in the mood. He says he pleasures himself a lot, at least once a day. I have said this is most likely affecting his sex drive!! But still nothing has changed also asked him what he fantasies about while doing this and he has said nothing??? Really confused and stressed out there is only so much fun a women can have solo!!! Lol
I'm 25 and he's 29!! We have talked about it and he says he is just never in the mood. He says he pleasures himself a lot, at least once a day. I have said this is most likely affecting his sex drive!! But still nothing has changed also asked him what he fantasies about while doing this and he has said nothing??? Really confused and stressed out there is only so much fun a women can have solo!!! Lol
Think sex drive differs in everyone, i'm a guy and mine is pretty high. Depends what you are happy with really and if that is going to be the norm if you want to be like that where you feel frustrated a lot compared to how you feel about them?
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