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Hello all,
6 mnths ago I split up from my partner of 9yrs & thankfully managed to get myself back on track & actually started getting used to single life. I started focusing on me me me & changing things up in my life.

Then I met this guy who is really sweet, kind, considerate, funny, compassionate & whose company I enjoy. From day 1 I said I didnt want to rush into a serious relationship & he felt the same as he recently came out of a relationship too. I was open in letting him know I'm not ready to share myself & commit myself to anyone yet as I'm enjoying my own company too much. It sounds selfish but its true.

Then last night (2 months later) he says he doesn't know how long he can do this for...says he thinks about me a lot & wants to spend more time with me & is just being really sweet...however I'm still in the same boat...I don't want anything serious, however I really like this guy & can't expect him to just roll with my flow. Then it scares me that what if this guy was sent especially for me? What if I throw away a potential great relationship? Do I ignore my feelings & give it a go? I'm not worried about being alone but good guys are hard to come by...right!? What if I go along with it & I still feel the same 6 months later, that would be so unfair to him & he could possibly miss out on someone who wants a relationship!!!

Anyone have any advice or comments???

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If you are thinking "what if I go along with it" then it's not what you really want.

Much as you may like him, I think you need to let him go until you know that you're ready for a relationship