Hello, I was out to dinner recently with old friends - one of the men in the group works for them. Although polite, over the years I have made it plain that I do not care for his company or attention.
After the dinner we were on the car park, everyone saying 'Goodnight!' They had all turned away to get into the car when this man lunged at me and wouldn't let go. He was trying to pull me against him and I struggled to get away, realising how strong he was and I began to panic. Eventually he let go when I shouted to get his hands off me.
I don't think the others were aware what was happening. Without speaking to anyone I went directly to my car, and drove away. Two days later I telephoned my friend who had invited me and told her what happened. She was appalled and had no idea what had taken place. She said that her partner would speak with the man.
I keep reliving what happened and feeling so upset. I know it wasn't anywhere near as bad as what does happen to women, but nevertheless am still shaken and very, very angry. This man has got away with this kind of thing all his life. I hate the thought that my friends partner will think I over-reacted and no harm was meant - it was all a joke. I'm a 64 year old Grandmother and although I haven't had a husband / partner for many years, resent that anyone should think it's OK to manhandle me.
Thanks for listening - I feel better having got that off my chest. Fifi
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That's never happened to me (thank God!), hope you're not as shaken now.
Do you really think that your friend's partner will think that you over-reacted?
Do you really think that your friend's partner will think that you over-reacted?
Thats horrid! I can't believe he'd do that to you... I'd almost be tempted to say report it to the police, as it could be a indicator of worse behaviour to come... But the main thing is that you arent hurt, and you've told your friend. Try to never be alone with this man again...
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