I can never get an orgasm..

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Im not sure what is wrong with me but I have had sex quite a bit of times with my bf & not once have I ever had an orgasm. I don't know why, & my bf is well packaged down there so idk why I won't be able to. Its sad to say bt iv never had an orgasm from a guy. Bt when I masturbate I can give myself as many as I want as fast as I want. Any tips or ideas on what I should do because I'm starting to think I'm helpless. I don't want my bf to think there's something wrong with him also because he can't get me to reach climax. So any help or tips would be greatly appreciated!

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Why dont you play with yourself while he is having sex with you? how do you usually make yourself orgasm?

Have you tried going on top and grinding down / rubbing up and down whilst having sex?

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There isnt't anything wrong with you. Most women can only come through clitoral stimulation. You could try using a small vibrator during sex to stimulate your clitoris or just your own hand or even his. You can come easily on your own so try incorporating the same thing into sex with him. Most men love to see women play with themselves! Relax and have fun. Hope that helps a bit xx

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Hiya,

My ex was well endowed but I never had orgasms & my partner before was half the size & I never had that problem. Apparently you don't have to dig deep for the G-spot...lol.

That probably didnt help

but I can appreciate how frustrating it is sometimes.

Good luck

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Thanks for the help guys,I will definitely try some new things. & how do I know when he's hitting the g-spot? Ugh I know I sound all Little girlish bt I'm 20 & I just want to be able to share that feeling with my boyfriend. I want it so bad haha & now I'm sounding like a sex freak bt in all honesty I love sex & I see it as a way of life. I like to be creative & enjoy every bit of it. I just Wna be able to get off while having sex.

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How are you having sex?

I think you need to take the lead and do things that you know will make you orgasm!

How do you orgasm when you are alone?

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Hiya,

It isn't only important for you that you get off but for your bf too, I'm sure he wants the satisfaction that he has satisfied you...this is why I'm gonna be a lil graphic

They say the g-spot isn't that far inside...if your bf was to stick 2 fingers in you & bring the tips of his fingers up towards your belly & jiggle about...apparently its around that area.

Girly when you do have an orgasm, it literally is like your gonna explode, nothing compares...not even a good ole strum!!! lol.

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Certain positions mean the g-spot can be touched on during sex such as doggy style or girl-on-top with you leaning back a bit. Well, that works for me anyway, hehe, you could try these too? You will know when he is touching your g- spot, believe me, it feels amazing lol and if you combine this with clitoral stimulation you could be halfway there.

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definately try using a sex toy - I certainly never managed to orgasm until I tried this g-spot toy - amazing!

http://www.lacoquette.com/playtime/gigi.html

it also helps you to understand your own body and what makes you come!

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Okay I will see what I can find, I was going to try some of the techniques you all had given me bt I was too into the moment & he always finishes soon. So it's like I hardly have anytime to get myself to come. Ah I wish there was an easy simple way to come before him haha & thanks nicolab4 for the website. I'll probably save that website for future occasions too

I was going to ask would using lube also help? & is there a certain one that can stimulate that good feeling ha

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