Please can you give me some advice - For a quick run down, let me bring you up to speed. I met my boyfriend through work about 2 years ago, he was married, his wife had left him about a year before I knew him, for a chap she worked with in the police force. She had planned to leave and worked it just after his work's bonus money came through and also after my boyfriend had gone for the 'snip' as apparently they had discussed after having their 2 childen they didn't want to extend the family....even though she knew she was going to leave.
Update now: My boyfriend and I are planning to go on holiday abroad next month both with his kids and mine, we are really looking forward to it. Sadly just this week my boyfriends mum has taken a really bad turn with her cancer and 2 days ago was taken into hospital and I have to say it really is not looking good. I advised boyfriend last night to maybe call the 'ex' to let her know in case he needed to get his kids up to the hospital quite quickly...he did and said she seemed ok.
He called me this morning to say she had e-mailed him also this morning (after the phone call last night) and 'cc' her solicitor to advise she would not hand over the kids passport details for the holiday ?!? until she had all the information about the resort/flight and that as the PRIMARY carer (she is not primary carer, there is no court order in line for the children) she said she has 'rights' and she is feeling compelled to go to her solicitor to sort out possibly refusing him access to his kids and allowing them to go on our holiday. We are of course going to give her the details but my BF has a few other things on his mind at the moment in 2 words 'his mum', where this has come from I do not know however, could someone advise what my BF what can he expect? can he really lose touch with his kids who he adores? btw, she is actually going on holiday the same day with her policeman boyfriend for 2 weeks....please help
